I want to know who you are.  I want to know what you want.  I don’t want to be at your mercy.  Maybe we can make peace with each other.  You can’t tell me what to do; you’re the one who will take orders.  I want you to shut up, you stupid bitch.  Why are [...]

Black Madonna, thank you for opening up and being my friend.  Thank you for stating your intensions and purpose.  Thank you for not being silenced after all the times I have shut you up.  I will be more responsive and respectful to you.  I will hold and praise you in your sacred messy and will [...]

You’re there:  you hide, you play, you dominate.  I give you permission to have all the sensation you want at any time you want.  The brain will not judge.  The brain will protect your safety and your needs – needs such as stimulation, maintenance, food, nourishment and attention.  There will be no more need for [...]

I discovered you when I was just a little girl. I can’t ever remember a time when I didn’t know the feel of you underneath my fingers. And while I have no memory of it, having slipped my chubby baby hands into my diaper seems entirely likely. Soon, however, I learned a love-hate relationship with [...]

I love you. I’m sorry I’ve mistreated you. You are beautiful and pure and deserve better. I pray for you to heal and open and love. You deserve that. I’m never going to let anyone touch you again that you don’t want to touch you. You might get hurt, but it will be okay. Maybe [...]

You are a source of abundance and pleasure Yet I still try to ignore you Not giving you air to breathe Hiding you in the depths of my clothing Pretending you don’t exist Ignoring your sensations and longings When I let you out of hiding Your slick juices run down my legs and leave wet [...]

It’s been a while since I wrote to you. I know I haven’t been listening to you. I’ve been ignoring your hunger, not feeding you when you ask to be fed. I’ve been letting my thoughts and judgments get in the way of your needs. It’s because I’m afraid of you. I’m afraid that if [...]

Angel, allow your self to be a vessel of extreme, infinite, wonderful please! Be the tool for joy, love, sadness, feeling, sensation, -being! You are me- You are beautiful- each part of you is extraordinary. You are love- You are light- Be my vessel of unconditional love! When you are sad, so am I- When [...]

May 24th, 2010 (I wanted to share this letter I sent to the New View Campaign) I just saw the film Orgasm Inc in San Francisco and am very grateful to Liz Canner for the powerful film. I was disturbed by the monetization of female sexuality by drug companies and plastic surgeons. This is the [...]

Beautiful, radiant powerhouse. You store grief, I know, and together we are travelling this road to freedom, feeling everything. Sequoia, I am so proud of you for saying yes, for forgiving me when I haven’t always listened, when I’ve felt ashamed of you, and for speaking up loudly. I hear you. I love you and [...]