Had my first Love Letter to My Pussy circle last night with two close friends that I live with. It was an intimate and fun bonding experience. It’s funny that I know these two women pretty intimately, yet, when we were sitting there as women, I was nervous and didn’t know how to start the evening. We were talking to each other and seeing one another one layer deeper without the veils of this life we live together and this practice that we share together.
We observed each other’s pussy. It’s fascinating how different the world is ‘down there’ and how different they are from one to another. We were glorifying over how the way our pussy looks is really different from another other body part. How there are colors ‘down there’ that isn’t anywhere else on our bodies.
It was moving to connect with my pussy again and to see her. She looks different from the last time I saw her. I took the time to get to know her again, seeing the variations in color and feeling the texture in different places. I remember growing up I thought there was something wrong with my pussy because my inner lips were long and they hung out over my outer lips. I mean, they’re just THERE. It wasn’t until I saw Betty Dodson’s “Sex for One” and the pictures of different pussies that I came to except mine as normal and unique. Thank you Betty!
So, the girls helped me pick out a name for my pussy, and it was a very fitting one. Mesa Sunrise. For the way the colors blend in a soft hue of red, pink, orange and sandpaper brown. And get this, the tip of my clit has a tiny white spot, like the sun peaking through the cavern! I found a picture of a Mesa Sunrise immediately following it and loved it!
We wrote our letters and ended the evening with reading them to each other. It’s beautiful to see these two women connect with their pussy. It was so sweet, intimate and touching. Women building a relationship with their pussy, their power, their sex. That’s what I want to see and that’s why I want this project to explode all over the world. I want to hear from women all over the world!
Yia (Mesa Sunrise)